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I'm Allie

I hope you find healing and hope in my words and efforts to support the baby loss community. 



Laugh with me, cry with me and let's make this world a more friendly, beautiful, and joyful place to be

Stillbirth Support

The Guide to Surviving Stillbirth, Resources and More

Flower Arrangement


The Mourning Dove

Normalizing grief while sharing stories of love and loss


Podcast interviews, article features and TEDx


About Me

Hey, I'm Allie


I'm a loss mom, an advocate, a hairdresser and a loudmouth.

I'm married to Drew, and dog-mom to a husky/malamute mix named Chaos. I have never watched an episode of Game of Thrones and I don't like strawberries (sorry not sorry).

Our son Henry (Hank) was stillborn at 32 weeks. We love him deeply and miss him greatly. I have dedicated my life to serving the loss parent community and ending preventable stillbirth in his honor.


In August 2021 we met Hank's little sister Octavia, our first living child. She brings us so much joy and a painful reminder of what Henry will never have. 

I really hope that visiting this site will bring a smile to your face. I want to make the world a happier place, even if it means talking about some really sad stuff. My hope is that you will find joy in the thoughts and experiences I am honored to share with you.


For interviews and speaking engagements please email

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